2006, Jan 15 (Sun) - Love and Care

I've just realized that love and care are two different things. Not even close.

There are times when you care for someone but you don't love him. Love with its most basic meaning, I mean. Right, just a strategy to reach your personal goals, perhaps.

There are times when you love but you don't care enough. That sounds unreasonable, but things do happen for reasons. Selfishness can win sometimes, unexpectedly.

I wonder whether we always tend put our ego first? Is there a so-called selfless good deed? Is there a love where you care for others more than yourself (not always though, to be practical)? Have you ever hated yourself as much as I do now...